Ask Ali: On the UAE: Language barriers crumble with time
What do you say after “hello” in the UAE? Breaking the ice can be a fine art, even among people from your own country. So getting to know people from another country, where English is not the first language, can be pretty hard. I’ve found that some of my acquaintances from western countries break the ice by poking fun at themselves, a trait they call being “self-effacing”. It’s good to be able to laugh at yourself, but actually confessing to being stupid in public? Call it machismo, call it pride, but somehow it just doesn’t gel with us Emiratis. So if you are looking for a way to break the ice, I suggest something simpler, like our favourite sports (football, falconry), cars, architecture (such as wind towers) or our musical instruments, such as the oud and Arabian drum. Or dates – the edible variety, I mean. These are things [...]
